
Sweden, hmmmm. What thoughts conjoured up anticipating a visit to Sweden? A proud yet understated people, true believers in a cradle-to-grave socialist model. Exporters of high-quality (Volvo, Saab, ABBA) or highly-efficient goods (H&M, IKEA). A country that must be green/beautiful and well-run.
Did we see and experience this? I guess so, but Stockholm is more like the Oslo we saw last year (than some nirvana)- very middle-class, lack of majestic buildings or architecture, expensive. It's clean but not stunning and this explains why it's not a tourist draw like Italy or Greece.
The place is built for the residents- the country doesn't need tourists to succeed. They have palaces and old squares but they would lose out in any popularity contest to ones in Rome or Prague or Madrid. The hotels and public spaces it looked like they tried hard to be clean and mildly upscale but stopped at an early point because it either got too expensive or further gaudiness would not be worth any perception of prestige or trophiness.
That all said, clean is good to us and what we saw was upper middle-class clean with a mininmum of run-down seediness. Their harbor is pretty without any stunning buildings but still a clear plus over Copenhagen's unspecial bay. Their grungy, grindy working class neighborhood has just a bit more dust than Copenhagen's Christianshavn and no pretty canals. If I were to choose where to live among the two, I'd choose Copenhagen. CPH made the favorite city list (on living appeal not tourist appeal), but Stockholm won't quite.
The shock of Norway and Copenhagen prices last year on worse x-rates made it a lot easier to deal with Stockholm, plus a nearly free hotel and independent decisions to eat light. We kept spending down without sacrificing enjoyment, happily. It's just that we were in Stockholm city only 43.5 hrs, a few less than Berlin or Amsterdam and those extra couple made a difference with shops/museums closing so early and opening late in Scandinavia. We still love Scandinavia but it's for visiting, not living.



